I'm telling you, right here and right now! Little boys don't get ANY MORE LOVED than this one! (And, on another side note...that shirt is already too small for him...YUCK - he's growing up TO FAST!)
Friday, September 25, 2009
I've lost it...
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Our Little Boy!
The August 12th ENT appointment turned into an August 21st appointment for tubes and it went swimmingly! We showed up at 7:00a.m. with Mali still in his pajamas (which were adorable and everyone loved, if I do say so myself!) We registered and then sat in the waiting room for a few minutes before they called us back. He played with the bead path they had on the wall (that's right, they had it stuck to the wall - genious if you ask me), walked around, and then came over to daddy. Daddy was playing with this REALLY cool sand toy. It's basically a table with a LITTLE bit of sand on it, some toys on top of the sand with a plexiglass cover so you can't actually get to the sand. Daddy had found that the toys would move with magnets from underneath. So, Mali laughed for a few minutes watching the toys move without being able to touch them. Then, all of a sudden, he bent down and picked up one of the magnets they had hanging from the bottom and started moving a little tugboat from underneath. I'm tellin' ya, he picked up on it FAST! When it was time to go back we dressed him in his adorable little hospital gown with some sweet little booties they provided. Almost immediately they gave me a syringe of some sort of medicine used to calm him down, and calm him down it did! 5 minutes later he was jelly in my arms, laughing at EVERYTHING, giving us kisses and blowing us drunk kisses. It was THE.CUTEST.THING.YOU'VE.EVER.SEEN!! I swear, he was the cuddliest thing and I CHERISHED that time because I was able to get some REALLY sweet kisses from him! When it came time for them to come get him, he went to them without hesitation (not at ALL like MY kid - normally it's WWIII for him to go to someone he doesn't know). The sweet nurses then took us around to where he would come out of recovery and we talked for a couple minutes. Before we knew it, the doctor was coming out and giving us post-op instructions. I'm telling you, I thought he was fixing to go INTO surgery it was so fast, I didn't think he had even started when he came out and told us he was finished. It literally took less than 10 minutes from the time we handed him over to when the Dr. came out. However, we soon heard his screaming coming from down the hall. One nurse came out and got his pacifier. Then, another nurse came and got his sippy cup. Then, 3 nurses brought him to us and let US try to console him...NO.SUCH.LUCK! After we signed the release papers we were out the door, got breakfast, and were back home (30 minutes away) by 9:15a.m. He and I slept most of the day Friday together and by Friday afternoon he was as good as new!
Funny story, though, I had gotten up and started the dishwasher when he was asleep and when he woke up, I was feeding him some Cheerios and playing in the floor since he was still a little wobbly. All of a sudden, the dishwasher kicked into the rinse cycle and Malachi stopped dead in his tracks, carefully walked into the kitchen and looked around the refrigerator - then he walked up to the dishwasher and started screaming and banging on it. I guess he had never heard it before - it was HYSTERICAL!
So, post-tubes, things have been pretty laid-back. We now have him on a twice a day regimen of Allegra and Nasonex for his allergies. He hasn't REALLY gotten sick EXCEPT for the fact that he had a reaction to his Chicken Pox vaccine and we had to quarantine him for a couple of days. Other than that...he's been pretty healthy! As long as his immune system continues to do as well as it's been doing lately I'll be happy - BUT, if he starts having a hard time and not being able to fight anything off again, I WILL push for immune system testing to make sure his levels are all where they need to be!
On the development front he's doing FABULOUSLY!! He used to be behind compared to his buddies in the nursery at daycare. He didn't roll or sit up or crawl as fast as they did, but he's kicking baby butt in the walking department! (And no - I don't REALLY compare him like that nor do I think it's bad that the other babies DIDN'T walk as fast as he did, it's just that HE has always been the one that's been behind, so I'm thrilled that he's not when it comes to walking!) We now have him back in shoes and he's doing great! During the time we were letting him learn to walk WITHOUT shoes, though, his feet went from a size 3 to a size 5! And those adorable Nike Shocks that Lolli bought were a size 4 - maybe if we have another little boy HE will be able to wear them, but for now, they're stuck in a SpaceBag with the rest of Malachi's clothing he's already outgrown! (I guess when Daddy wears a 13 and Uncle wears a 15...there's not a lot that can be done to prevent big feet!) He loves to run from us when we say we're going to get him and we LOVE to chase after him...it's SO FUN!
He also loves to CLIMB EVERYWHERE! A couple of weeks ago he climbed up onto the toddler sized couch my mom has at the daycare and tried to stand up. Well, he succeeded in standing up, but not for long...he fell right off into the edge of the train table she has and got a HUGE red mark on the side of his face. It bruised, but not terribly. Then, he got right back up and did it again...Oh what I'm NOT looking forward to when he learns to ride a bike/plays football/or does anything else that little boys just DO to hurt themselves...haha! Last night, in fact, we had taken the tray off of his high chair because it was dirty from dinner and he kept trying to climb up in his high chair seat. He succeeded a few times, but couldn't figure out how to get back OUT of it. SO, daddy kept rescuing him. Finally, I encouraged daddy to let him figure it out...after a few minutes of SCREAMING at the top of his lungs and looking at us WAITING for us to come get him (inevitably for him to get back up there...I'm sure) he figured it out and was SO proud of himself. We clapped, he danced, and the cycle continued for the next 30 minutes...haha!
He's pointing at EVERYTHING now! We have a series of picture books for him that are VERY heavy duty and he especially LOVES the animal book. I try to make noises of all the animals (except for, you know, the Panda, or the Giraffe...we have to glaze over those pages) and he laughs so hard on some of them. He's especially fond of the Dino, the Dog and the Sheep! He even tries to make the Elephant sound...it's SO sweet!
He loves his xylophone, his train (push and ride toy) and he still loves to dance! He rocks back and forth and bounces up and down anytime there's music on ANYWHERE!! His daddy also bought him his first matchbox car and he's learning to make vroom vroom noises and push it around! (Everything's a car these days, and, frankly, EVERYTHING gets pushed around with vroom vroom noises!) He loves his big yellow ball that Pops' bought him, and during the evening when I'm fixing dinner, his activity of choice is sitting in the floor with my metal colander, a long plastic ladle and goldfish! He hits the colander, turns it over, puts his goldfish in there, dumps them out and stays content for usually 30-45 minutes this way! (On a side note, he turns EVERYTHING over, his toys, our cell phones, anything gets flipped end over end if it's in his hands! Even his goldfish get flipped around a few times...I guess he feels the need to inspect everything!)
He's not horribly talkative, but knows how to get his point across. He says Lolli, DaDa, MaMa, Pop-Pop and Bye-Bye a lot. (The last two sound interestingly similar) He's started saying something akin to "Cal-Chi" which, I interpreted as Malachi since he hears his name so much, but, one of his daycare teachers thought he was saying outside...so we're still not sure about that one! ALL food is num-num and we're working on please and thank you. There was a little girl the other day at the doctor's office who was saying a LOT more, but I've come to learn that little girls just talk more than little boys...I think it's instinct...haha!
He's also learning the difficulties of discipline! The other night he got his first time-out in his room after a spanking. He threw a wall-eyed FIT at me and screamed AT me when he was finished eating. So, a swat on the leg and to his bed it was. After a few minutes of screaming I went in to see if he was ready to calm down and as soon as I went in his room, the screaming went UP a few octaves so back out I came for some more cool-down time. Then, after another few minutes (like maybe 5 at the most) I went BACK in and picked him up because he had calmed down. As soon as I picked him up, it started all over again. Finally, after about 3 or 4 cycles of this he had completely quieted down and I went in expecting to see him asleep. BUT, he was looking at the ceiling and when he saw me, his hands went up and he didn't make another peep. He finally got it! It was SO hard on me and daddy, BUT, he will learn and I'd rather deal with it NOW than 20 years from now! He has learned that he can't scream when he's getting dressed in the morning and get away with it and he's learning that when we SAY NO, we MEAN NO! It's hard, but it's part of our job as his parents to teach him right from wrong!
I know this has been a book, but I want to make sure I record everything I can so that when he comes back and looks at everything when he's older, he'll be able to see as many details as we can remember!
Oh, and by the way, hopefully tomorrow I'll be able to post pictures from him eating his first cherry donut with Lolli and Pop at the Donut Stop! A new tradition has begun!
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Something New I've Learned
Last week, I learned something. Maybe it's okay to not worry so much about forming/not forming habits. As I laid him down in our bed one evening last week to cuddle and snuggle and love on him as he drifted off into dreamland my first thought was that I need to be careful not to form a habit of this so he doesn't depend on it to go to sleep. Yet, as I stroked the top of his beautiful little head and kissed his sweet nose, and in between adorable smiles and sucks on the paci, something struck me. (No, not the paci that hit my nose while we were playing...) What struck me was that sometimes I need to just chill and realize that these times when I get to cuddle and snuggle and kiss that sweet Johnson's Baby Lotion smelling forehead will be gone all too soon. No, I don't want to have a 5 year old that has to lay in mommy and daddy's bed to go to sleep. But, what I do want is a 5 year old who knows that it's OKAY if he just wants to lay with mommy and daddy before visions of sugarplums start dancing in his head!! I want him to know it's okay if he just wants to be left alone with Gizzy and his blankie and drift off to sleep alone.
In the grand scheme of things, I'm learning that taking it one day at a time and cherishing EVERY moment can't start early enough. I already miss so much having to work full-time. So, while I don't want to start forming REALLY bad habits, I'm giving up on the notion that I can start from birth training my child to NEVER have a bad habit (relatively speaking, of course). Last night as I laid with him, again, in our bed, patting his bottom in between no-no's and various renditions of Twinkle Twinkle and This Little Light of Mine, and giggling because I think I just have the cutest baby with the cutest laugh, ever, I figured it all out. The meaning of my life, that is. I'm here to raise my son (and any more that God chooses to bless us with) in the knowledge of the One True God, first. I'm here to raise him to be a happy, healthy and productive member of society and an example of Christ to the world. But last night, with the weight of the world off my shoulders, as my beautiful baby laid sleeping beside me, I gave up. I gave up the urge to put him in his bed because that's what I "should" do. I laid there with him for about 30 minutes just watching him sleep and kissing his head and praying, thanking God for him. And I realized, I may never be the "perfect" mother, but I can be the kind of mother God wants me to be. The kind of mother that is gentle with her manner but firm in her teaching. The kind of mother that speaks loving words often, correcting and chastising when needed. The kind of mother that realizes that some habits are okay, and life isn't perfect, and she's not perfect and that sometimes it's perfectly acceptable, even expected, for a mommy and son to lay down together and cuddle at night because that night will be gone all too soon.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Where in the World to Start???
THEN CAME THE BIG NEWS - Sunday morning we didn't go to church and stayed home trying to get some things accomplished for the week. It was then that I posted THIS on Facebook - MALACHI IS OFFICIALLY A WALKER!!! He took 5 steps to daddy earlier and then we went to Lolli and Pops' house this evening and he was walking (however wobbly) to them too!! YEA MALACHI!!! so incredibly exciting! Since then, he's been doing a LOT better as we've been keeping him out of shoes and socks so he can feel the ground. Especially this week he's really taking off! I'm just so proud (and scared) all at the same time! Thomas and I also think he's grown a couple of inches in the last couple of months! He seems SO MUCH TALLER!
Then, Malachi got his 5th ear infection in the last 7 months and it was back to the Dr. Medicine and ear drops and things seemed to be better! So, it was off to vacation we went on July 15th. Lolli, Pops, Me, Thomas, Malachi, Logan, Logan's best friend, Tanner and our cousin, Hannah, all piled into a 15 passenger van Wednesday afternoon and headed down towards San Antonio!
Sounds a little "Beverly Hillbilly"ish...I know...BACK OFF! At least Grandmommy wasn't strapped to the top in her rockin' chair!
Before you judge...YES, we took Malachi out of his carseat for parts of the trip...I don't want to hear it, we're good parents, we strapped him in ALMOST ALL OF THE TIME - this was one of the few exceptions to that rule!
Malachi was absolutely FIXATED on those fans! They are pretty cool, though!
Here's just a few random Cheddars shots!
Is this not THE CUTEST PICTURE EVER????
It was back on the road Thursday morning and our first stop was New Braunfels, TX. What does that mean? Schlitterbahn? What did that mean for us? (mommy, daddy and Mali?) Sitting under a hot tent with mommy and daddy going back and forth from the wave pool, to keep cool, while Malachi slept and we tried to keep him cool. Everyone else rode a few rides, mommy and daddy left Mali asleep with Lolli and Pops for a little while to ride one ride and then it was time to leave. Schlitterbahn = 1 expensive ride! Oh well...such is the life when you have a little one!
It was SO HOT!
Waiting to Get In!!!
Our Awesome Parents!
As far as sweet sleepy boy up there is concerned, he is developing an absolutely adorable personality and everyday we have more and more fun with him! He has learned how to say no. Only, it's not verbal, it's just a shaking of his head and flapping of his arms. It's actually pretty funny! When he's done eating, if you try to offer him another bite, he looks down, shakes his head and his hands and then looks back up at you to see if you got the message! Lolli tries to pick him up sometimes when he's playing with her trains at daycare and he'll go all the way into the corner (against the wall between the little toddler couch and the train table) and shake his head and his hands to get away from her! Of course, he thinks this is a game now and Lolli LOVES to show it off! It really is quite funny!! We can ask him to find George, his monkey or Gizzy (a stuffed sock animal kinda thingy that he loves) or his phone or his sippy or his blanket and he'll go get it and hand it to you. He knows when you say thank you and put your hand out that he is to give you whatever it is he has. (Generally this means one of our cell phones, his pacifier, which he is weaning from, or the remote control) He also knows what no means when WE say it and most of the time we only have to say it once or twice before he gets the picture. Of course, it goes without saying that a third "no" is never spoken as being told once and reminded once is more than enough warning...I'll let you deduce what you will as to what follows two "no-nos" if the behavior continues...but if you know me well, at all, I'm sure you can figure it out pretty easily!
Health wise, we are still struggling, somewhat. He's been relatively well for the last 4-5 weeks, meaning no strep, no viruses, etc. However, the ear infections are getting out of control. So, I've already made an appointment with an Ear, Nose and Throat specialist on August 12. I KNOW we're headed in the direction of tubes and I'm TOTALLY okay with that. In fact, just last night he was up most of the night crying and pulling at his ear and we just finished a second round of antibiotics for this ear infection on Tuesday. I credit him not getting sick with anything from the antibiotics he's been on, but I don't think it'll be long before Lolli's calling from daycare saying he's sick again. Needless to say, I'm getting ready to REALLY push for immune system testing, since, as many of you know, his Uncle Logie was born completely without an immune system and had to take IV therapy for a good long while when he was a kid. I don't know, we'll see. But, I am learning that my instincts haven't been wrong, yet, so I'm not going to back down anytime soon.
Okay, this has been a book, and for that, I'm sorry. BUT, hopefully I'll get back into the swing of things on this blog and keep it updated more often! Until then, I'll leave you with this gem!
Thursday, July 9, 2009
First Haircut
Okay - all of those pictures were self-explanatory, however, this one might not be so easy to figure out! When I was a little girl I would ALWAYS take my hairdresser a bag of cheetos (yeah, not sure what it is with me and cheetos) and a Dr. Pepper. ALWAYS. So, we have started the same tradition with Joe and Malachi. Joe's favorite coke is Coke and his favorite candy bar is a Payday - Hence, Malachi's first gift of a Coke and Payday to Joe the barber. The first of many!!!
And...because I forgot to take a picture of his haircut at the same time (because frankly I was trying to comfort my baby boy who was, at the time, feeling a little betrayed by his father) - here's a picture of his new haircut the next day...the 4th of July!! (That post will be coming soon!!)